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Yes. All Men.
image of Tank Girl by E-Mann at DeviantArt Elliot Rodger’s misogynist rampage has been on many people’s minds over the weekend. I’ve observed with interest the conversations that are being had, about...
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Guest Post: Is Consent Sexy?
I’m glad to bring to you some guest posts now that I’m organized to do so! Today’s is from Emilie, who blogs at Any Girl Friday. She contacted me wanting to write about the phrase “consent is sexy” and...
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Guest Post: The T Word
I have read a lot on this topic, and my partner Phil wanted to write a piece of his own after one of our discussions. For additional context, I would also recommend reading Kate Bornstein’s piece, “Who...
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-Art history – 500 years of women ignoring men. Good for a bit of a laugh! -Angelina Jolie, who just starred in Maleficent (which has its own rape metaphor), opened the Global Summit to End Sexual...
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Not Waving, But Drowning: How WePay Failed Eden Alexander
UPDATE: We do have a new campaign set up here! We’ve heard from people at this fundraising site AND their payment processor and gotten their blessing, so it obviously CAN be done. “Cofounder and CEO...
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Shaming Clients Is Not Going To Make Sex Work Safe
When I first heard about john schools, I thought they were places run by sex workers where prospective or current clients could learn how to be respectful and mindful. I thought they sounded like a...
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Abusive White Male Tears: Crowdfunding Betrays Weird Morals
Massive trigger warnings about domestic violence (described and photographed), rape, rape apologism, entitlement culture, police Updates below in bold! I’ve written before on crowdfunding’s betrayal of...
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#JusticeForChristyMack and the Death of MMA’s Machine Age
Confront the toxic hypermasculinity of combat sports that enables intimate partner abuse without reproach or reprimand with this one WEIRD trick. Well, it’s more of a flurry of UNUSUAL sleight-of-hand...
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Calling Out, Calling In: Why Internet Activism Matters
There is an ongoing debate for the past couple years on whether or not online accountability processes are useful- if they are useful, in what ways, and if they aren’t useful, is there any way to...
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BDSM Dungeons: Your Policies Are Your Politics.
this should be a hot scene, not your abuse response policy “On the Handling of Disputes Between Members and/or Participants 5. I understand that The South Bay Spot will not be put in a position to...
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